• Группу ведут Анна Рошинская и Петр Бондаренко

1-ый семинар цикла «Работа с генограммой в системном подходе». 10 ноября

В своей жизни мы менее свободны, чем полагаем. Мне вспоминается пара с двумя детьми в состоянии острого конфликта, молодая мама, уставшая от «деспотизма» мужа, жалующаяся на отсутствие подлинной близости, хочет развод. Для более объемной картины следует добавить, что у нее есть «любовь» на стороне и «проблемы» с алкоголем. Через некоторое время проясняем историю семьи и с удивлением «натыкаемся» на удивительное совпадение: когда мужчине из этой пары было 8 лет, его мама стала «гулять» и «выпивать» и поэтому он крайне негативно реагирует на выпивших женщин. Уточняю сколько лет старшему сыну и удивляюсь удивительным межпоколенческим повторениям: ему тоже 8 лет. И тогда желание женщины порвать эту связь выглядит не только как ее личное желание, а как часть семейной динамики.

Фрейд искал глубокий и целительный смысл в обычных вещах повседневной жизни – провалах памяти, оговорках, описках, ошибочных действиях, снах. Мы будем искать целительный смысл в удивительных повторениях, несчастных случаях, болезнях, передающихся из поколения в поколение и, наконец, тайнах и мифах нашей семейной истории. Я исхожу из того, что в семейной системе психические функции одного члена семьи обуславливают психические функции другого, происходит постоянное взаимное влияние, правила и особенности этого влияния, а так же функционирования семейной системы в целом, могут частично осознаваться (на меня очень повлияла моя бабушка, или я развелась в том же возрасте, что и моя мать), однако, по большей части они остаются неявными.

Кем и чем мы дорожим? На кого хотим быть похожи? Как наш род влияет на сегодняшнюю жизнь? Важно увидеть и охватить личную и семейную историю одним взглядом, в ее целостности. Для этого мы будем рисовать и исследовать ваше генеологическое дерево, отмечая на нем трагические и странные события, удивительные совпадения , а так же значимые связи и и отношения, с тем, что бы вы увидели как и с кем вы связаны. Возможно, это освободит вас от не вашей вины, стыда, страха, или поможет стать более успешным в профессии или материальном статусе. Основной вопрос, с которым люди приступают к этому исследованию, может касаться самых разных сфер жизни: от сексуальности или бесплодия , до примирения с «давним» врагом или освобождения от мешающего влияния.

2-ой семинар цикла «Созависимая семья. Системный взгляд. Инструменты». 12 января

3-ий семинар цикла «Измена в супружеской паре. Этапы работы. Техники.». 9 марта

4-ый семинар цикла «Краткосрочная терапия, ориентированная на решение. Коучинг пар». 11 мая

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